Up-to-date

Well hello there, stranger. What’s up. I have started a new job. In april. I’m a consultant for Sogeti. I love it so far; the company, my co-workers in Nyköping and the possibilities it’s opened up. I’ve learnt so much just being on idle (you call it idle when you’re not on an assignment).

But I’m on an assignment now, it’s on a project in it’s infancy in many ways. Very exciting, super new and a bit confusing. I’m working towards creating a prototype for a Graphical User Interface for an company internal simulation tool. At the moment we’re only gathering requirements and trying to understand the complex needs.

I’m travelling to Södertälje everyday to the client, so I’ve started listening to books and prepare other weekly reading material by listening to it. It’s like some alone time in some way.

I’ve also started my Invisalign treatment. I’ve spoken a little about it on my Instagram. But haven’t really said or written anything about my personal experience with it so far. I’m on tray 6 and my full treatment plan is 28 trays. I’ll tell you more about it.

I’m working this week and the next, then I’m off with the kids a bit and then the whole family go to the UK as per usual. And I look forward to that. As per usual.

Besides that sun is shining, garden is growing but also dying because of lack of rain. We’ve been north, we’ve been here, we’ve been good.

Kitchen remake

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As I mentioned in an earlier post, we have a kitchen renovation planned. The new kitchen (well most of it anyway) is already ordered and will be delivered the 28 mars. We went for an IKEA kitchen, but we haven’t bought everything at IKEA. For example we found another kitchen mixer, with that we needed a dishwasher water switch and the induction stove. Also the fan, but it hasn’t arrived yet.

The new kitchen is black, matt black. And the tiles are matt white. Matt is the way we do things. ;)

The kitchen mixer we found on Amazon (adlink). It’s one of those where you can pull out the end bit and use to spray water.

AWA köksblandare

AWA köksblandare

I’m very happy with this choice and I hope the black nuances will work well together even though we picked and mixed. The sink is also matt black.

Because the mixer doesn’t come with a built in switch for the dishwasher we had to buy a seperate one and we found this in… hold on…. matt black. For insurance reasons you really should have one of those in place.

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Diskmaskinsavstängning

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And finally; a completely ordinary stovetop!

I’ll keep you updated on the progress of our future kitchen. Maybe I should show you all what it looks like today… It’s the original kitchen från when the place was build 1979. The previous owners have however painted the doors – in a very shiny yellow colour. Now that’s something to look forward to isn’t it?!

Sickness never ends

Ah man, we’re so sick here. All of us. It started with Jon on Sunday, kids woke up with a fever on Tuesday and it hit me on Wednesday evening/night. And it’s just still here.

Had the worst experience yesterday. I phoned the doctor and got a prescription for a strong cough medicine. I’m coughing so my throat is sore… And I took Aiden to the doctor on yesterday because I was worried about him. He was fine though, but still fevery and very low. He also got a cough medicine. I went to the pharmacy and picked them up, also went past shop and got some necessities. When I come home and unpack I see everything in one bag is swimming in my cough medicine. I just break down in tears. I’m sick, tired and put all my faith in this very expensive medicine.

This morning I headed back to the pharmacy with little hope of solving this predicament. This lovely man though sorts me out with a whole new one, that he wraps up and gives me. I cried again. What a hero. And this medicine is the real deal, it really helps.

I just hope we’ll all get better soon, it’s getting a bit depressing.

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Richmond reminiscing

Richmond by the Thames

I was dreaming last night about my job in Richmond. Can’t remember exactly what the dream was all about, but it’s made me think about those days today. I didn’t work there for very long, just about a year. We were living in Maidstone at that time and because the trains in England never goes in a horisontal line I had to go up to London Victoria and change trains and head west to Richmond.

Richmond is a beautiful place though, with the Thames coming through. I’d been to Richmond even before I started working there, years before moving to London. I was visiting and this crowd of people went to a restaurant/pub by the river called the Slug & Lettuce. I saw this Britpop looking guy in the crowd I was with (this was during my heavy britpop days of course). My memory might be failing me but I think his name was Jason. Anyway, I don’t think I even spoke to him. Or maybe I did, it’s not like I was shy. I just can’t remember the conversation. And maybe I shouldn’t it was long ago…

Leaving with my BFF and her french friend (she was also brought up in France) I told them about the guy and that I should ask for his number.  The french guy turned to me and with a heavy french accent said; “No but of course you should ask for his number, if you meet a guy with the same haircut as you – you know it was meant to be!”

So funny! What a funny guy, why didn’t I keep in touch with him instead?

Anyway, little did I know,  I would walk up and down that same alley a lot a few years later. First time being after my interview. I was recruited via LinkedIn which seems much more common in the UK than in Sweden. They set me up with this phone interview (I know now I was on speaker phone and all my future colleagues would have heard my Swedish accent fumbling in my very first branch specific interview. But my honesty in what I could and couldn’t do won me a face-to-face interview. I remember well how I came outta the Richmond tube station and opposite was my future office. The interview took place at Starbucks with one of my colleagues, a young student that I was going to help out because he couldn’t work that many hours anymore. I was invited to come with to the office which was a very small start-up-style room that got so super hot from 8 computers tightly crowded together (not in the winter though when I had to wear gloves)

Richmond by the Thames

I met everyone and was invited for drinks after. Can’t remember if it was a friday (we always went out for drinks on a Friday) or if it was a special occasion. London was hosting the summer olympics that year and we went to the Slug & Lettuce mentioned above, to watch Usain Bolt win 100 (or 300 m)? It was a great interview.

I got the job and started commuting. It was 2 hrs single way at it’s worse, could maybe do it in 1.5 hours (so 3-4 hours a day). But that was the name of the game. I had some initial problems with the train and reliability but got the hang of it and got a routine into it. Things I remember fondly was buying a Costa coffee (double espresso with cinnamon on top) before going to work. I also ate out a lot there, well you can imagine, bringing a lunch bag when commuting for 2 hrs to work… naaah. Sometimes I bought food at the grocery shop of course. But when eating out I either had the wrap down the road or oh, major favourite; Carbonara at Pizza Express.

Commuting was sometimes beautiful in its uglinessLondon landmark

The company I worked for did partly Magento sites and partly WordPress sites which was what I mainly did. Working with alumni sites for different colleges. We had 3 different designs to choose from but there was always custom requests, so I got to hack WP a little bit.

I fell pregnant just a few months into that employment, which really wasn’t the plan. But hey, there you go. If that would’ve happened we were planning on moving closer to London again to make my commute less extreme.

Writers block & Dancing Cranes

Oh I know, I know… my blogging is terrible. I go through doubts that it’s even worth having a blog as I don’t tend to it the way I would want. Reasons for this is habit I guess, having a day job and two small kids. The last two arguments should also be my reason to blog – sharing my life. But oh well, maybe the habit will come eventually. Another reason I really want to get into blogging again is that I’m convinced writing is a terrific habit to have. Especially writing for an audience.

One of the things from our life I want to share is our renovation projects at our house. Everything is going pretty slow and that’s ok with us, as we’re doing everything by ourselves so we need to cope and also for financial reasons.

In spring already I bought this wallpaper on sale that I really wanted. It’s been showing up all over the blog sphere in Sweden, but I’m not just falling for a trend, I’m genuinely in love with the feeling of this pattern! This week we got it up! I’m so happy now. It was our first pattern match wallpaper and we made it! The area (hallway) is not finished yet though and won’t be for a while so I’ll keep you in the loop. If I manage to keep this blog thing up that is.

The wallpaper is Dancing Cranes from Engblad & co, if anyone is wondering.

A 2017 review

Year in review, it’s been a year on fast foward. Like all years after you have kids. Cannot believe how quickly time goes. But I guess it’s a good post to get in because I’ve been off blogging for so long. This is sort of an introduction almost. :D

January

January last year we were living in a flat in a complex not far from where we live now. We had decided to try to invest in a house in the same area and we were going to viewings regularly. We had also already lost a few biddings and were getting low and feeling that the dream of a house would not come true for us.

Early in January though we went to a bidding and quickly won the bidding war. Rushed to sign papers and we had a house!

This was also the last month of me on full-time parental leave. Going back to work scared me. The first year with my second child had been very tough and I was still not sleeping properly. I was nervous and anxious. All in vain though (as per usual) as it turned out fine.

February

I went back to work in February and had my in-laws visiting. February – a short but busy month. We went to ice hockey in Södertälje with my mother-in-laws husband, he really likes ice hockey but it’s difficult to catch a game in the UK.

March

To say that March was busy is an understatement (sorry for commenting on EVERY month that it was busy, but it was!) Not only did we move houses, we renovated the stairs before moving in and it was a busy time at work after my parental leave, we had a stay over conference mainly centering around our system, but also some team building exercises.

April

In april we got settled into our new home, spring came and we spent a lot of time outside in the garden, waiting with curiosity what would happen in the garden during spring and summer.

May

In May we ate way too much ice cream. Went to watch the cows being released out from being kept indoor all winter. And the kids were swimming in the baby pool a lot. Later in the year we got a big blow up pool instead, which Aiden just loved!

June

In June me and Jon had our first night away from Evelyn. We went to Stockholm and saw Coheed & Cambria, which is mainly Jon’s favourite bands. But I think they are great too. We spent a lot of time in our back garden, one of the reasons we even got a house was to have a little garden.

Me and my sister had a night out, child free, at the local sea food restaurant.

I also discovered my second offspring likes drawing, something the first has not shown any interest in until just recently.

July

July came and I finally dealt with my over grown rhubarb! That was a relief. We ate one popsicle a day by now and went on cycling with the cargo bike with more or less success. There was one time cycling home from Oxelösund and they were both breaking down because they were tired. Hopeless!

My dad bought a humble boat and we could all go out to an island. Look forward to next year when we’ll have more opportunity to go out with him.

We also bought a trampoline after thinking about it back and forth. But it was well invested money and Aiden had friends over everyday to jump on it, keeping 1 outta 2 kids happy. E loved it too, but she was too small to jump when others were in there too..

In the middle of enjoying summer we also started ripping the wall paper of the lounge’s walls. Painted the roof and walls. Basically every room in the house will need redecorating, but we’re trying to do it little by little.

August

We have a seasonal card at Kolmården Wild life park and we went there. But good all local nature also provided some exciting encounters. There was ice cream, of course.

We went to see my niece who just moved into a new flat too. We went to a park that had animals and radio cars.

We took on our new renovation project which was the office/guest room. Our plan was to get it done in time for granny’s visit, but instead she became a part of the renovation process and had to stay in Evelyn’s room instead. Really appreciate her help with tearing down wall paper etc. We painted the roof, the heater and put new flooring in as well. My pinterest pin came to life!  We also took down the door for this room and Jon built a barn door instead.

September

In september my developer colleague and I was going to a meetup in Stockholm but just out of our town the train collides with a military vehicle. Luckily everyone survived! The 3 people in the military vehicle (I was sure they died because the whole thing came flying past out window) had to spend a few days in hospital, but were not seriously harmed. A bit shocking though and I walked away with a bruise.

We went to Kolmården Wild life park again and barbecued as per usual.

Oktober

It was Evelyn’s second month of pre-school/nursery and it brought A & E even closer to each other. She got used to the environment very quickly and is loving it there. Which helps. I started working more hours and life was getting into place. Brought my gym bag to work a lot more (and to the actual gym as well :D)

The pears on our pear tree was ready for harvest, but it was more than we could handle! It took hours to even get them off the tree. Next year I’m going to make some pear cider with them.

November

November was a very strange month in my life. First me and Jon and the kids flew to the UK to Jon’s family. This was on a Thursday, on the Friday Jon & I were leaving the kids in their granny’s loving hands as we flew to Lisbon for the weekend. We had a getaway (with a terrible first Airb’n’b experience so we had to change to an expensive but very lovely hotel (I’m so glad we did that, the whole trip would’ve been ruined otherwise.

On Monday morning Jon flew back to the UK to be with the kids there for a week. I met up with a developer from Stockholm that I met for the first time IRL. We attended the Web summit and I’ve written a few posts about it so won’t go into any details about it now.

I flew back to the UK on the Friday morning and was so happy to see my family again after a whole week! But I wasn’t feeling well, on Saturday Jon and his brother-in-law went to Twickenham (London) to watch a rugby game and in the evening we went to my sister-in-laws for dinner. But after dinner I sat in the sofa and started feeling really cold and sick. I got a high fever and it didn’t really go away. So the days that I was supposed to spend in the UK with family, doing shopping, eating some english food we missed since we’ve been away – none of that really happened. I was playing with the thought of rebooking our flights cause I didn’t feel in any shape to fly. Plus I thought I had the flu so wasn’t very happy about exposing people to that. But we did decide to go, I stuffed myself with pain killers the whole day and everything went well actually. But in the night I got a fever again and the next day I went to a doctor. Turned out I had a really bad infection and was hospitalised.  Such a bad ending to November after that great start!

December

December gave us (a) little snow, a fantastic, nostalgic concert with Henrik Berggren and finally a hanging barn door after been waiting for months for its sliding kit. We also celebrated my parents 50th anniversary!

It’s been a good year, but looking back I realise why it’s gone so quick! Moving houses, starting work again, going abroad, being sick. All this while juggling the famous life pussle with a 1 year old and a 4 year old.

50 year wedding anniversary

My mum and dad had their 50 wedding anniversary on Saturday. Yes, they married the day before New year’s… So a few of us went on a cruise to celebrate, which is by the way what we always used to do on their anniversary growing up. So it was a bit nostalgic too. It was a lot of fun and everything went so well with the kids, I was so surprised! No chasing, we could eat in peace and so on.

I started thinking about how some, usually men, want to claim that us women have a lot of privileges when it comes to like boarding life boats etc. I remember when going on the boat as a kid we always took the stairs. Having prams now though, we had almost no choice but to take the elevator. But everyone wanted to take the elevator, well every young, strong man with a travel bag and case of beer. Oh come on… Like my mum said, then they stress about going to the gym. They even cut in front of us to get in the elevator. Things like that can really trigger me. It shouldn’t, because you can’t change people that way and it only drains me of precious energy.
It’s ridiculous though. And by the way that women go first in life boats is no rule or law. That it happened during the Titanic going down was only because the Captain threatened to shoot every man that went in front of a woman.

In the real world though, the are other privileges that takes precedence over this and here we are, a seventy year old woman and her 36 year old daughter tuning people out on a ferry with little result.

Moet
We have my mum and dad a basket with food stuff and a custom made board and some champagne to celebrate ❤️
The silouette is my mum and dad from their wedding photos, we made a couple of mistakes on the board and we’re going it again to correct it.

My daughter just kept climbing up here and flirting with the keyboardist in the band. I didn’t hear this, but according to my brother when the band came on they walked passed Aiden and he said; “I sure hope you’re good”

Web Summit – the rest of it!

One of the most stupid things I did when going to the Summit was forgetting my power bank/solar panel charger and/or my dash charger for my Oneplus 5… Major fail!

But still, managed to keep my battery alive all days. So what did the second day bring about?

Well, one thing that was very interesting was listening to Microsoft talk about Cyber Security. Especially when talking about the WannaCry malware attack that took place on May 12 this year. A date that will go to history as the scale of the attack is unprecedented. According to the news just the last few days North Korea was behind it.

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Lesson learnt, don’t open it.

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THURSDAY – third day & last day

20171219_123056-ANIMATION.gifThe last day was FULLSTK developer conference. Mozilla got me excited about their new browser, Jon Skeet absolutely got on my list of people to admire with his rant about equality in tech and his “Code like a girl”-t-shirt!

Also listened to Susie Wee from Cisco talking about network APIs, was drawn to a corner were Wyclef Jean was giving a production master class. And finishing off was Al Gore, passionately talking about the earths future and techs role in this.

Full-packed days and many interesting meetings. My LinkedIn is alive again. But there was so much more than what I have described here, or tried to. My flight was early the next day and I was spending the last night by myself. I went to a hotel near the airport.

One funny thing that happened on the flight back to London was that when we boarded the plane I went to the toilet. I asked the female stewardess if she knew if there was any available seats nearer the toilets as I had a UTI (although in all honesty I didn’t think I actually had a UTI, but didn’t want to explain it in detail so just said UTI. Turned out I had one and it made me massively sick the next day) ANYWAY… She told me to sit down and she’ll let me know when we’re airborne. But before we took off a male steward came to me and said;

“I believe we have better seat to accommodate your… situation”

embarrassed but relieved I was now sat very close to the toilets. Thank you EasyJet!

Thank you Web Summit for an awesome conference and for taking action to engaging and lifting women in particular in this business. Thank you Women in Tech for the ticket! And grateful my job encourages these type of things!